的確 市面上總有著正和反面 兩端的人。
你有著多讓人羨慕 人人夢想的 生活
敢言敢說的 有什麼不好，何必處處虛偽討好他人 “
然而還把那自己自導自演自編 的橋戲假象 催眠著自己 一切是
看了多愚蠢 多做作 多可笑 多精彩
在於的是 你的良心 和 真心
還是踏踏實實地 真心相對 大愛 隨緣 熱誠 地惜福以及感恩 上天的安排呢？
那麼 人心貪念 也是眾所周知的，
別開玩笑了 數日吃同樣的食物你也會想要嚐一嚐 西餐 日餐等等的不是嗎
想雙生兒般的 出雙入對 彷彿生死也無法分開般的堅固關係
逢星期都會到處喝茶 外交 認識某某的朋友的朋友 嘻哈“吹水”
催眠自己 其實真的四海為天 交友滿天下
其實 是為了填補自己寂寞 空虛
幻覺 虛幻 是過不了一輩子的
其實雙方在他人友人前 醜說著 對方的缺點甚至受不了卻逼不得已得繼續演的友誼醜態
一個人 品嚐 自立 疼愛自己和家人
一個人 總好過 你去催眠虛偽幻覺的欺騙自己吧
把全部打造成“生活非常美好”的儀態 來跟你的社交媒體報到 喧嘩地讓人羨慕著。
關鍵在於，身在他們旁邊的 都看到他們在埋怨 臭罵 詛咒 著等等的 醜陋畫面，
偶爾的坎坷，真實的 思考 思想
不是 每一件在你生命中的事情 都必須要是最美最好最漂亮的啊，
何必 擬造 假象 催眠欺騙自己呢？
Came across an article and linked to above short clip.
The tittle of article are quite interesting where caught my attention,
"Can you fake it until you make it?"
Creating white lie with good intention, or to be fake and act like you do.
They are very similar.
It quite an odd or weird tittle but it successfully attract me.
Either you realize it or maybe you didn't know but you're doing it.
With high-tech world where we all experience it right now,
it's easy to present to portray how we want ourselves to be in social medias.
Hide or mute the dark side or crop-it-in ONLY beautiful side of things,
to show what you intended to be in order to living in your dream imagination world in social media.
Thanks to technology.
They left out syllabus in educating humans to be true to themselves and everyone.
It's ugly and disgusting when some drama happens around even nearby us daily.
To-buy-over-their-heart, to be their fake priority in your imagination.
Posting or sharing around your "excellent vocabulary or grammar of essay",
in showing off to your social medias friends on how drama you are.
People out there knew what's in your mind, your brain and your thoughts,
or maybe your next target and planning in becoming the top that exist in your imagination.
There's no true or false,
but yes or not for you.
Either to be the one fake it with wonderful imagination of yours,
or to be the on going through life and
be blessed and thankful all sorts of bitter sweet sour spicy experience.
The choice is YOU.
From your career, to relationship, to your life thoughts.
Humans tend to fake it wherever they are,
it's part of life.
There's always people, the successful people
some of them "fake it until they look professional".
Humans will never get enough for more and more money coming in,
in another way, they would always like more to increase in their pay.
Greedy are in every humans,
just the matter of how strong you control your greediness.
Eating same dish for few days may make you feel bored too,
so how can you live with same food until the moment your taste-bud lose of sense of taste?
Sometime you might just feel like having some fine-cook or Italian cuisine?
Humans are the same.
They might fake it or act it until they get it,
this is where fake acting never die in real life.
There's very common on social media seeing people post about their friend's party etc.
No one like to be alone,
but some are just faking like they know the world.
They create some sort of "networking" on the purpose of posting it online,
to build their so call "network empire" to remind themselves that they're not alone.
Some hashtags of BFF Goals, BF Goals..
it's just another type of motivational goals of yours to get some perfect one to complete list on it.
Try to ask your heart, are you / they sincere?
Or he/she is just another one for you to fill up your empty time with?
Create some fake vision of you got the best partner ever that everyone envy,
but under the table, it's just nahhh..
You guys are just depending on others.
Spend your precious time alone doesn't mean you're lonely,
but extremely full and blessed inside.
Instead of faking it,
why don't appreciate your family or share your love with them?
Don't waste your time for nonsense creation by faking everything,
or lying including yourself that you actually know everyone?
Those very strong and good in "social networking"?
You know that empty feeling of the end of every party,
where your so call any sort of partner left you.
And it's just you alone,
dragging yourself way back home and the one never leave are your family.
Be true and sincere to your heart,
why fake it?
3. Life thoughts
It remind me of my experience once,
during exploration with one of my friend where they choose to display what they want it to.
CROP IT OUT part from the full view,
where they can just post it and look totally fabulous.
They create some sort of illusion where their social media friends are going to die in envying.
Yeahh that's nothing wrong about it.
"Seeing something beautiful in worse situation?"
It's all about sincerity.
That particular friend are cursing hard that they never return back to this
"hell place" for them,
ends up I saw their posting on social media of "I miss this place and wish to stay there forever".
They just try to fake it to be fancy enough,
to show that they life are always beautiful and attract likes I guess?
They want to be fabulous, stylish or just attractive?
It's pretty normal to feel sad sometimes,
sames goes to life, it will be some moody, up set moment.
We're all humans.
It's okay to cry for a short while,
it's okay to be little negative when you're totally out of positive energy.
Just don't fake it.
There's nothing wrong of saying true words or comments,
it show somehow that person care and notice details about something else.
I remember once I saw one of my lecturer posting status:
"From lights come darkness, and darkness come lights... Life is full of betrayal, but we still need to learn to trust... That's the world of #Warcraft"
War are everywhere,
between humans that are intangible but happen almost every day.
C'est la vie (This is life)
The only different,
is you and your mentality.
Be real to yourself,
and don't fake it!
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