故作善意，幻造虛偽
很多時候只是一線之差
上幾個月偶然閱讀一篇文章，
挺有趣的！
我被它們的大題所吸引 “你可以虛偽直到你達到你想要的嗎？”
聽起來這不是一般我們所可能設想的範圍，
不過問問你自己，你真的不懂嗎？
還是其實你正在做著，卻不以為然呢？
事業上、人際關係、生活態度上...
你是打從心裡的真誠 熱誠；
還是 像我之前說的，你其實只是在自己的虛幻中假面的善意騙著自己。
無可否認，
的確 市面上總有著正和反面 兩端的人。
你又是那一端的？
別繼續欺騙自己了！
以先進的科技而言，
大家都非常幸運的可以 把自己想要表現的一面
又或者
自己想要達到的形態或虛現實的一部分
來報到、催眠 等等等的
告訴自己和你的社交朋友們
你有著多讓人羨慕 人人夢想的 生活
說實話，有時候覺得挺噁心的。
敢言敢說的 有什麼不好，何必處處虛偽討好他人 “買他心”呢？
為了自己印像中想要表達的自己 而擬造出讓你看似友好、成功的假象，
然而還把那自己自導自演自編 的橋戲假象 催眠著自己 一切是真實的
看了多愚蠢 多做作 多可笑 多精彩
大家都知道你骨子裡想的隱藏著的是什麼鬼注意
當然無對於錯 之分
在於的是 你的良心 和 真心
你就這樣讓虛偽蒙面自己的前途 繼續以為自己非常優越的生活著？
還是踏踏實實地 真心相對 大愛 隨緣 熱誠 地惜福以及感恩 上天的安排呢？
事業上、人際關係、生活態度上...
工作、心態、心情....
總是有著息息相關的關係
1.工作
工作上，人人都說“只想混口飯吃，過過日子”..
那麼 人心貪念 也是眾所周知的，
十全十美的人根本不存在。
你真的願意在得到自己第一份工資的數目，
滿意了後 一輩子以一樣的工資生活直到你老去嗎？
還是，
你真的可以每一天混口飯吃，三菜一湯的年月日吃著同一道食物到你失去味覺為止？
別開玩笑了 數日吃同樣的食物你也會想要嚐一嚐 西餐 日餐等等的不是嗎
真實的面對自己吧，你的答案已在心頭。
那麼，公司戰鬥一輩子都會存在；
只要你身邊接觸的是人類，人類貪念心可是無止境的。
2.人際關係
總是在社交媒體體態上 看到自己社交圈子朋友與某某他們的朋友關係良好
想雙生兒般的 出雙入對 彷彿生死也無法分開般的堅固關係
逢星期都會到處喝茶 外交 認識某某的朋友的朋友 嘻哈“吹水”
說著胡亂無厘頭的廢話 只為拉近或者讓自己在那圈子裡更有存在感
努力的讓人留下一種 沒有你這個社交高手就不習慣的情景
為的是建立自己的“人際地位”和虛偽“人際關係”
催眠自己 其實真的四海為天 交友滿天下
讓自己習慣性的依賴著另一位看上去最為你最跟你息息相關非常像自己的友人一起
其實 是為了填補自己寂寞 空虛
甚至讓自己覺得自己永遠不是一個人
也有著所謂閨蜜般超越一輩子的感情
帶著閨蜜嫁人嗎？
別再籠罩虛偽關係 讓自己安心
幻覺 虛幻 是過不了一輩子的
人生短短 卻也讓我真真實實看見雙方外人一致羨慕到死的友情
其實雙方在他人友人前 醜說著 對方的缺點甚至受不了卻逼不得已得繼續演的友誼醜態
你對自己真實了嗎？
一個人 品嚐 自立 疼愛自己和家人
一個人 總好過 你去催眠虛偽幻覺的欺騙自己吧
3.生活體態
記得某一次的旅途中，
第一次看見身邊友人們拍下某某畫面的一部分，
重點是 “一部分”
然後上傳打卡，之後加些非常有型的字眼，
把全部打造成“生活非常美好”的儀態 來跟你的社交媒體報到 喧嘩地讓人羨慕著。
關鍵在於，身在他們旁邊的 都看到他們在埋怨 臭罵 詛咒 著等等的 醜陋畫面，
還立毒誓 說自己再也不會回到那鬼地方
卻社交面上 述說自己有多麼想念當時的情景、想永遠呆在那裡等等的話語
何必呢？
以最真實的自己會面這世界不好嗎？
人生難免有些不順心，生活也不是常年大晴天好日子。
偶爾的坎坷，真實的 思考 思想
面對自己不好嗎？
不是 每一件在你生命中的事情 都必須要是最美最好最漂亮的啊，
生命的坎坷，才會讓你真心誠心感恩世界的美。
就像每次正面滿滿的人，
也會有傷心負面的時候，問題是你們關心過或者聆聽過他們嗎？
負面一會兒 的適當釋放時也是人生必經之路啊。
生活糟糕、沮喪、失落、傷心..
是最自然不過的態度
何必 擬造 假象 催眠欺騙自己呢？
還記得我一位很有思想的教師，
有趣地諷刺著說：
“世界戰爭每一秒每一天都在上演著，
然而我們卻不斷的告訴自己 要懂得學會如何相信他人..”
現實的狀態 終歸於現實
在於的是 你的面對心態。
Came across an article and linked to above short clip.
The tittle of article are quite interesting where caught my attention,
"Can you fake it until you make it?"
Creating white lie with good intention, or to be fake and act like you do.
They are very similar.
It quite an odd or weird tittle but it successfully attract me.
Either you realize it or maybe you didn't know but you're doing it.
With high-tech world where we all experience it right now,
it's easy to present to portray how we want ourselves to be in social medias.
Hide or mute the dark side or crop-it-in ONLY beautiful side of things,
OR
to show what you intended to be in order to living in your dream imagination world in social media.
Thanks to technology.
They left out syllabus in educating humans to be true to themselves and everyone.
It's ugly and disgusting when some drama happens around even nearby us daily.
To-buy-over-their-heart, to be their fake priority in your imagination.
Posting or sharing around your "excellent vocabulary or grammar of essay",
in showing off to your social medias friends on how drama you are.
Funny.
People out there knew what's in your mind, your brain and your thoughts,
or maybe your next target and planning in becoming the top that exist in your imagination.
There's no true or false,
but yes or not for you.
Either to be the one fake it with wonderful imagination of yours,
or to be the on going through life and
be blessed and thankful all sorts of bitter sweet sour spicy experience.
The choice is YOU.
From your career, to relationship, to your life thoughts.
Humans tend to fake it wherever they are,
it's part of life.
1. Career
There's always people, the successful people
some of them "fake it until they look professional".
Humans will never get enough for more and more money coming in,
in another way, they would always like more to increase in their pay.
Greedy are in every humans,
just the matter of how strong you control your greediness.
Eating same dish for few days may make you feel bored too,
so how can you live with same food until the moment your taste-bud lose of sense of taste?
Sometime you might just feel like having some fine-cook or Italian cuisine?
Humans are the same.
They might fake it or act it until they get it,
this is where fake acting never die in real life.
2.Relationship
There's very common on social media seeing people post about their friend's party etc.
No one like to be alone,
but some are just faking like they know the world.
They create some sort of "networking" on the purpose of posting it online,
to build their so call "network empire" to remind themselves that they're not alone.
Pathetic.
Some hashtags of BFF Goals, BF Goals..
it's just another type of motivational goals of yours to get some perfect one to complete list on it.
Try to ask your heart, are you / they sincere?
Or he/she is just another one for you to fill up your empty time with?
Create some fake vision of you got the best partner ever that everyone envy,
but under the table, it's just nahhh..
You guys are just depending on others.
Spend your precious time alone doesn't mean you're lonely,
but extremely full and blessed inside.
Instead of faking it,
why don't appreciate your family or share your love with them?
Don't waste your time for nonsense creation by faking everything,
or lying including yourself that you actually know everyone?
Those very strong and good in "social networking"?
You know that empty feeling of the end of every party,
where your so call any sort of partner left you.
And it's just you alone,
dragging yourself way back home and the one never leave are your family.
Be true and sincere to your heart,
why fake it?
3. Life thoughts
It remind me of my experience once,
during exploration with one of my friend where they choose to display what they want it to.
CROP IT OUT part from the full view,
where they can just post it and look totally fabulous.
They create some sort of illusion where their social media friends are going to die in envying.
Yeahh that's nothing wrong about it.
"Seeing something beautiful in worse situation?"
It's all about sincerity.
That particular friend are cursing hard that they never return back to this "hell place" for them,
ends up I saw their posting on social media of "I miss this place and wish to stay there forever".
They just try to fake it to be fancy enough,
to show that they life are always beautiful and attract likes I guess?
They want to be fabulous, stylish or just attractive?
It's pretty normal to feel sad sometimes,
sames goes to life, it will be some moody, up set moment.
We're all humans.
It's okay to cry for a short while,
it's okay to be little negative when you're totally out of positive energy.
IT'S OKAY.
Just don't fake it.
There's nothing wrong of saying true words or comments,
it show somehow that person care and notice details about something else.
I remember once I saw one of my lecturer posting status:
"From lights come darkness, and darkness come lights... Life is full of betrayal, but we still need to learn to trust... That's the world of #Warcraft"
War are everywhere,
between humans that are intangible but happen almost every day.
C'est la vie (This is life)
The only different,
is you and your mentality.
Be real to yourself,
and don't fake it!
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Appreciate, Stay Blessed.
珍惜，感恩。
Love,
May.
媄鏸.
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