Tuesday, June 21, 2016

胆小者勿进入 - 十殿閻羅鬼門關 新加坡 | Don't click in if you're timid - Haw Par Villa Singapore


地獄十殿 | Ten Courts of Hell
是一座人工建造的「山洞」,裡面擺放了描繪地獄場景的雕塑,用以表達華人傳統的「因果報應」的觀念。

Not trying to be creepy or something,
but it may or may not exist.
No ones know.



But I'm sure people with huge interest or notice or traditional Chinese movie,
this may be something familiar for you.



有些事情,信或不信可能都真的存在,
誰知道呢。


不過這篇部落格我相信對傳統中文文化有興趣的你們一定不陌生
或者一些中文古時代電影也會可能聽聞的事情。
My intend is to show the door,
try hard but this is the best I could get years back on my last visit.
My brother cute face.

真正目的其實是我弟弟身後那扇門呢!
不過要知道這是幾年前的照片,所以這可說是最“見得人”的照片啦。
話說我弟弟的表情好可愛啊。




Just random, out of the blue think of my previous visitation to Singapore,
few years back, three years.



I'd learn deeply and even visually see it on how our traditional Chinese be like.
It may be just some story, or some sharing words of mouth from our eldest generations.
Who knows?
No prove, or maybe.. should said,
people who may or might experience this (if it does exist)
they'll never return.


就非常新奇地突然想起過去到訪新加坡的體驗,
那可是3年前的事情了也。



這地方雖然說起來或想起來有些毛毛的,
可是卻讓我很難忘,而且也讓我親眼看見以及閱讀,
防腐深入了解 上了一堂真真實實的寶貴課。



畢竟這些事情也只有從我們的老一輩的長輩們,
或看古裝戲會出現的畫面而感到好奇和奇怪。
不過無人曉得呢!



這是非常神秘的事情,
從老祖宗傳到現在要孩子們學乖的華人人生大道理。
真或假,有時真的重要嗎?



Enter to the door of "ghost", they used to called.
You will see level of punishment due to your karma on what you did the whole life,
according to Chinese tradition cultural and history maybe?



Okay, and I try not to explain that much.
Not trying to be creepy, yeah sometimes something are better to understand by yourself,
something like this that are always in lots of hidden meaning.


進入“鬼門關”,你會看見一層層不同的處置方式。
別說我沒提醒你們,這地在網絡上被人稱為是
“最恐報既展覽 – 十殿閻羅鬼門關, 牛頭馬面等著你”。



讓你們自己了解以及多多想像吧,
不過先告訴你們,以下照片可能讓人感到不安哦!








The best part of going through the "ghost door",
not about creating fear or insecure,
but effective education way of every generations to have with positive, kind, and good thoughts.


Karma are everywhere, and happen anytime.
You'll never know.
Discipline yourself and create love no war or any other negativity.


I'm reading their description level to level,
and visual of statues might be creepy for me as I'm afraid of blood thingy.
But at the same time,
it explain and always make me remind myself to never do that,
cause I didn't want to ends up being like that.
Or a pop out from your mind before you trying to go for something devil side.


Just amazing & I'm sincerely appreciate,
love how beautiful Chinese cultural are.



其實在所謂的“鬼門關”,
不是讓人感覺害怕或恐慌,
那可是最有效的教導方式 尤其對於我們所有中華文化弟子們,
要心存善念,慈悲心,大愛眾生。


報應一直都在,只是時間的問題。
無人曉得,能做的是確保自己正面滿滿 大愛眾生。


我在裡面一層層的讀他們的每一層的解說和處置原因等等的,
或許 裡面黑暗以及血腥木偶的偶像 讓我毛毛的 因為我很害怕血淋淋的畫面;
不過在同時,他們一一解說讓我不斷提醒自己不能犯下,
因為自然的我們也不想成為像他們這樣    非常痛苦
或者在你想開始某些不良事情時可能可以阻止你犯下讓自己後悔的蠢事。



真的很神奇!
非常以華人的傳統文化為傲,
多麼地優美 有意義。


Surrounding area of the "ghose door".
舒緩一下,在“鬼門關”外可是大晴天美好前途呢!

hawparmap
Source from internet.

別怕別怕!出來後到「亭子和寶塔」安安神吧!


Don't scare! Don't cry, calm yourself at Pavilion and Pagoda 
with lots of interesting photo posing that you could pose.



Okay okay, I'd actually remove some other photos,
I try not to frighten you guys out.
Be sincere and happy!



Be true, doing it with all the good thoughts good heart and good intention.
Everything will be fine.




好啦,我已經刪除好多照片啦~
怕你們不安嘛,別怕了!


正面面對,對得起天地  自然就無大礙啦~


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Appreciate, Stay Blessed.
珍惜,感恩。


Love,
May.
媄鏸.

❥♒

Saturday, June 18, 2016

Fake for a white lie that minimize hurt | 虛偽善意的善意謊言


故作善意,幻造虛偽
很多時候只是一線之差



上幾個月偶然閱讀一篇文章,
挺有趣的!
我被它們的大題所吸引 “你可以虛偽直到你達到你想要的嗎?”



聽起來這不是一般我們所可能設想的範圍,
不過問問你自己,你真的不懂嗎?
還是其實你正在做著,卻不以為然呢?



事業上、人際關係、生活態度上...
你是打從心裡的真誠 熱誠;
還是  像我之前說的,你其實只是在自己的虛幻中假面的善意騙著自己。



無可否認,
的確  市面上總有著正和反面 兩端的人。
你又是那一端的?
別繼續欺騙自己了!




以先進的科技而言,
大家都非常幸運的可以 把自己想要表現的一面
又或者
自己想要達到的形態或虛現實的一部分

來報到、催眠 等等等的
告訴自己和你的社交朋友們
你有著多讓人羨慕 人人夢想的 生活



說實話,有時候覺得挺噁心的。
敢言敢說的 有什麼不好,何必處處虛偽討好他人 “買他心”呢?
為了自己印像中想要表達的自己 而擬造出讓你看似友好、成功的假象,
然而還把那自己自導自演自編 的橋戲假象  催眠著自己    一切是真實的
看了多愚蠢 多做作 多可笑 多精彩
大家都知道你骨子裡想的隱藏著的是什麼鬼注意



當然無對於錯 之分
在於的是 你的良心 和 真心
你就這樣讓虛偽蒙面自己的前途 繼續以為自己非常優越的生活著?
還是踏踏實實地 真心相對 大愛 隨緣 熱誠 地惜福以及感恩 上天的安排呢?




事業上、人際關係、生活態度上...
工作、心態、心情....
總是有著息息相關的關係



1.工作

工作上,人人都說“只想混口飯吃,過過日子”..
那麼 人心貪念 也是眾所周知的,
十全十美的人根本不存在。



你真的願意在得到自己第一份工資的數目,
滿意了後 一輩子以一樣的工資生活直到你老去嗎?
還是,
你真的可以每一天混口飯吃,三菜一湯的年月日吃著同一道食物到你失去味覺為止?
別開玩笑了   數日吃同樣的食物你也會想要嚐一嚐 西餐 日餐等等的不是嗎
真實的面對自己吧,你的答案已在心頭。
那麼,公司戰鬥一輩子都會存在;
只要你身邊接觸的是人類,人類貪念心可是無止境的。


2.人際關係

總是在社交媒體體態上 看到自己社交圈子朋友與某某他們的朋友關係良好
想雙生兒般的 出雙入對  彷彿生死也無法分開般的堅固關係
逢星期都會到處喝茶 外交 認識某某的朋友的朋友  嘻哈“吹水”
說著胡亂無厘頭的廢話 只為拉近或者讓自己在那圈子裡更有存在感
努力的讓人留下一種 沒有你這個社交高手就不習慣的情景
為的是建立自己的“人際地位”和虛偽“人際關係”
催眠自己 其實真的四海為天 交友滿天下



讓自己習慣性的依賴著另一位看上去最為你最跟你息息相關非常像自己的友人一起
其實 是為了填補自己寂寞  空虛
甚至讓自己覺得自己永遠不是一個人
也有著所謂閨蜜般超越一輩子的感情
帶著閨蜜嫁人嗎?
別再籠罩虛偽關係 讓自己安心
幻覺 虛幻 是過不了一輩子的


人生短短 卻也讓我真真實實看見雙方外人一致羨慕到死的友情
其實雙方在他人友人前 醜說著 對方的缺點甚至受不了卻逼不得已得繼續演的友誼醜態


你對自己真實了嗎?
一個人  品嚐   自立   疼愛自己和家人
一個人   總好過   你去催眠虛偽幻覺的欺騙自己吧


3.生活體態

記得某一次的旅途中,
第一次看見身邊友人們拍下某某畫面的一部分,
重點是 “一部分”
然後上傳打卡,之後加些非常有型的字眼,
把全部打造成“生活非常美好”的儀態 來跟你的社交媒體報到 喧嘩地讓人羨慕著。
關鍵在於,身在他們旁邊的 都看到他們在埋怨 臭罵 詛咒 著等等的 醜陋畫面,
還立毒誓 說自己再也不會回到那鬼地方
卻社交面上 述說自己有多麼想念當時的情景、想永遠呆在那裡等等的話語
何必呢?
以最真實的自己會面這世界不好嗎?
人生難免有些不順心,生活也不是常年大晴天好日子。
偶爾的坎坷,真實的 思考 思想
面對自己不好嗎?
不是 每一件在你生命中的事情 都必須要是最美最好最漂亮的啊,
生命的坎坷,才會讓你真心誠心感恩世界的美。
就像每次正面滿滿的人,
也會有傷心負面的時候,問題是你們關心過或者聆聽過他們嗎?
負面一會兒 的適當釋放時也是人生必經之路啊。



生活糟糕、沮喪、失落、傷心..
是最自然不過的態度
何必 擬造 假象 催眠欺騙自己呢?




還記得我一位很有思想的教師,
有趣地諷刺著說:
“世界戰爭每一秒每一天都在上演著,
然而我們卻不斷的告訴自己 要懂得學會如何相信他人..”



現實的狀態  終歸於現實
在於的是  你的面對心態。



Came across an article and linked to above short clip.
The tittle of article are quite interesting where caught my attention,
"Can you fake it until you make it?"



Creating white lie with good intention, or to be fake and act like you do.
They are very similar.


It quite an odd or weird tittle but it successfully attract me.
Either you realize it or maybe you didn't know but you're doing it.




With high-tech world where we all experience it right now,
it's easy to present to portray how we want ourselves to be in social medias.
Hide or mute the dark side or crop-it-in ONLY beautiful side of things,
OR
to show what you intended to be in order to living in your dream imagination world in social media.
Thanks to technology.
They left out syllabus in educating humans to be true to themselves and everyone.




It's ugly and disgusting when some drama happens around even nearby us daily.
To-buy-over-their-heart, to be their fake priority in your imagination.
Posting or sharing around your "excellent vocabulary or grammar of essay",
in showing off to your social medias friends on how drama you are.
Funny.



People out there knew what's in your mind, your brain and your thoughts,
or maybe your next target and planning in becoming the top that exist in your imagination.  



There's no true or false,
but yes or not for you.
Either to be the one fake it with wonderful imagination of yours,
or to be the on going through life and 
be blessed and thankful all sorts of bitter sweet sour spicy experience.
The choice is YOU.



From your career, to relationship, to your life thoughts.
Humans tend to fake it wherever they are,
it's part of life.



1. Career

There's always people, the successful people 
some of them "fake it until they look professional".
Humans will never get enough for more and more money coming in,
in another way, they would always like more to increase in their pay.
Greedy are in every humans,
just the matter of how strong you control your greediness.


Eating same dish for few days may make you feel bored too,
so how can you live with same food until the moment your taste-bud lose of sense of taste?
Sometime you might just feel like having some fine-cook or Italian cuisine?
Humans are the same.


They might fake it or act it until they get it,
this is where fake acting never die in real life.

2.Relationship

There's very common on social media seeing people post about their friend's party etc.
No one like to be alone,
but some are just faking like they know the world.
They create some sort of "networking" on the purpose of posting it online,
to build their so call "network empire" to remind themselves that they're not alone.
Pathetic.


Some hashtags of BFF Goals, BF Goals..
it's just another type of motivational goals of yours to get some perfect one to complete list on it.
Try to ask your heart, are you / they sincere?
Or he/she is just another one for you to fill up your empty time with?


Create some fake vision of you got the best partner ever that everyone envy,
but under the table, it's just nahhh..
You guys are just depending on others.



Spend your precious time alone doesn't mean you're lonely,
but extremely full and blessed inside.



Instead of faking it,
why don't appreciate your family or share your love with them?
Don't waste your time for nonsense creation by faking everything,
or lying including yourself that you actually know everyone?
Those very strong and good in "social networking"?



You know that empty feeling of the end of every party,
where your so call any sort of partner left you.
And it's just you alone,
dragging yourself way back home and the one never leave are your family.


Be true and sincere to your heart,
why fake it?


3. Life thoughts

It remind me of my experience once,
during exploration with one of my friend where they choose to display what they want it to.


CROP IT OUT part from the full view,
where they can just post it and look totally fabulous.
They create some sort of illusion where their social media friends are going to die in envying.



Yeahh that's nothing wrong about it.
"Seeing something beautiful in worse situation?"
It's all about sincerity.


That particular friend are cursing hard that they never return back to this "hell place" for them,
ends up I saw their posting on social media of "I miss this place and wish to stay there forever".


They just try to fake it to be fancy enough,
to show that they life are always beautiful and attract likes I guess?
They want to be fabulous, stylish or just attractive?



It's pretty normal to feel sad sometimes,
sames goes to life, it will be some moody, up set moment.
We're all humans.


It's okay to cry for a short while,
it's okay to be little negative when you're totally out of positive energy.
IT'S OKAY.


Just don't fake it.


There's nothing wrong of saying true words or comments,
it show somehow that person care and notice details about something else.



I remember once I saw one of my lecturer posting status:
"From lights come darkness, and darkness come lights... Life is full of betrayal, but we still need to learn to trust... That's the world of ‪#‎Warcraft‬"



War are everywhere,
between humans that are intangible but happen almost every day.
C'est la vie (This is life)
The only different,
is you and your mentality.



Be real to yourself,
and don't fake it!

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Appreciate, Stay Blessed.
珍惜,感恩。


Love,
May.
媄鏸.

❥♒

Wednesday, June 15, 2016

Jujube Cafe (Vegetarian) 枣子樹素食咖啡館 | Taman Fandason, Kepong 甲洞


想來點素食 個人造造福,
少殺生 讓人流口水忍不住天天吃素食的首選就在這裡啦!


Become vegetarian even one day, it helps and means a lot to our mother earth.
Stop killing or destroying!
Believe it or not,
this place change my mind and make me really enjoy having my vegetarian meal.



位於甲洞的這家樓下是中餐素食,
樓上是西式素食的  枣子樹素食館 真的太讓我愛不釋手啦。
他們連一個面書上的官方網頁也沒有,
可見他們多麼純樸、用心與人交流。


有時候人與人之間的相處,
永遠遠好於在網上的溝通。


網上的分享與交流只是方便 科技愛好者可獲得第一手消息。


It's located at Taman Fandason, Kepong.
First floor serve main course and mainly chinese cuisine in vegetarian cooking,
while the second floor serve more into western cuisine and better for long time chill and coffee.



This vegetarian restaurant didn't even have their official facebook page,
where I believe they concern more into human communicate and connectivity, how beautiful!



Nothing can beat human connection and human touch in real life,
technology or social media is just another way to enhance the whole situation 
and I guess it's created for fast and quick technology users.


I'm here sharing some information,
just to get more details to get you understand 
how wonderful is it even trying to consume vegetarian meal in one day time.




來 快速看看他們家的咖啡館菜單 有多麼引人注目,
甚至讓我很享受素食,
要是在我家附近的話  我可要盡所能天天吃素呢!


Let's take a quick look on their menus,
on how they use ordinary stuff using vegetarian way to come out with wonderful foods.
It motivate me in more likely to consume vegetarian,
how good if this store located nearby my housing or working area,
I would like to consume vegetarian meals every day!








由於他們沒有真正一個正式的方法,
所以小妞我在這裡盡我所能地 一一分享給大家唄!


所以我自己上網搜索也資料有限,
就在這裡小小分享 希望能幫助你們知道他們的一些營業時間等等的小資料咯~



They didn't have any official site especially on Facebook,
it's check in and others review or comment on it.
(So far what I get)
So here's why I'm here to share everything for you!
Let's take more vege!



I realize when I try to browse through website and it's definitely very little of information,
I hope my little sharing here could definite help or motivate you to go for vegetarian!
:)


小小下午茶時間,
這就是我們的選擇啦~


For my wonderful tea time session,
here's my choice! wohoooo



好滿足呢!
要知道我們是吃了 來到再吃的呢!胃口不錯吧~


How satisfied!
We ate something and here again, we can't help it but to order!
Bwahahahhaaha good stomach we have huhh? hehehhee


全全素食
ALL are in vegetarian

另外一個 讓人身心休息 特別喜歡的大原因之一,
就是這裡細節上的用心,
尤其是他們一字一句 
這樣走一圈慢慢讀著下去 讓人真的感覺走上了智慧旅途
受益良多!


Another main reason for that I love this place very much,
is because those little tiny pieces where you might or might not realize,
but they put efforts there and hoping that they could make you think and listen to what's in you.
By walking around,
I'm like traveling along the journey with my heart and mental,
for thinking and improvement on my self-development.




讓人感覺格外寧靜 安詳 溫和
感恩  自足


It's beautiful.
Make people feel extremely peaceful, calm, relax and chill.
Thankful   Blessed



小小設計 插頭處也不放過
Some little drawing even at the plug area.

咖啡就在這裡炮製的啦~
好香呢!


Best coffee magically made from here!
Smell really good.



那未完成的拼圖,
讓你放鬆專注的完成事情。
等有緣人的到來喲~


The incomplete piece of the puzzles,
for right people to come and complete the whole image.
Are you the right one?




全景

Panorama view


在這裡真的有著非常濃濃的書香味,
好愛 好愛啊!



有機會我未來的家也要有個小小這樣的角落,
讓人沉思 靜靜的品嚐生活。



The smell of books here are great!
Don't get me wrong, the surrounding that inspire you to peace your mind and read.







貼心的他們,
都有小貼紙 好可愛啊~


They're so cute and details,
sticker notes to show something. How lovely.



都太美了啦!

Just beautiful!












背景美得讓人沉醉
The surrounding are too beautiful to faint for.



就連廁所裡也太可愛了吧!
哈哈哈哈哈


Even inside the toilet,
ohmygodd it is very adorable isn't?






走著下去  滿滿的希望和祝福
這裡可是大家到來時許下 或 寫出想說的話
很有意義呢!


Way down to the staircase before we move,
those little notes are hopes or things that people wanted to say,
they share it here hoping their right person will soon notice or heard them.
Meaningful!





當然忘不了的,
就是看看我 可愛的 小螞蟻 拍出的畫面咯!



Oh yeahh of course never forget,
to see what my XiaoYi Action Camera get during my exploration. hehehe :)


和我的寶貝  愛麗絲,
嘻嘻嘻~


感恩 每次跟她,
一切事情都特別美好。
總是讓我受益良多,非常慶幸她總是在我身邊,
讓我知道我不是一個人。



With my dear, Alice.


So bless to be with her,
things are beautiful and I learnt lots from her.
Thanks for her willingness in spending times for me,
when others are questioning or just sit and look what's gonna happen on me.
Thanks for always be there for me,
letting me know that I'm never gonna be alone.



好啦~
再怎麼捨不得總得說再見,
我期待下一次 更美好的光臨。


素食 素食 我愛你!
加油 一起盡可能減少對肉食的引用吧~



Okay, almost the time to go.
Everything surely comes to the end no matter what,
it excite me for my next visitation, I'm sure it gonna be really really amazing!
Can't wait.



Vegetarian food I LOVE YOU!
Let's try our best to cut down meat consumption and make our future a better world.
Peace.






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Appreciate, Stay Blessed.
珍惜,感恩。


Love,
May.
媄鏸.

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